Thursday, August 23, 2012

TA wait


So we have done it.  We received LOA, I-800 provisional approval, NVC cable, Article 5 pick up, and now TA wait.  It feel like I am speaking a foreign language.  What that sentence means is, after a year of "paper chasing" we are down to the final and most exciting step.  We are waiting for China to say, "Mr. and Mrs. Kelly, please come and get your baby."  We expect to hear that in the next two weeks.  Then we will make our travel arrangements and leave as soon as possible to head over and bring baby Grace Evelyn Kelly home.  We are excited to see what she is like.  The only information we have from her is from December of last year.  We know she has changed so much.  We are excited to get to know her personality and find out who she is.  It will be a whirlwind trip, but we are also excited for a glimpse of China.  After focusing so much attention on the country for the last year, it will be interesting to finally see it.  
Life of the Kelly Crew has continued.  The big boys went to church camp last week and came home dirty and tired, but also more grown up.  During the week, I went in and had a varicose vein removed.  Awesome I know, but I won't share any pictures.  If you are interested, I will text you my cool looking picture of my bruised leg.  I was forced to take it easy.  I don't do easy very well.  Brandt had a soccer tournament, and I had to miss the first game to "take it easy", but went Saturday and Sunday.  They won all their bracket games, then went to the championship on Sunday.  They ended up losing in overtime, but took second place.  It was the first time the entire team played together.  It was fun and the boys played really hard.  The temp was near 100.  We had a tired boy Sunday evening.  I am so happy with the attitudes of his coach and teammates, as well as fellow parents.  


Brandt's second place soccer team

Brandt's second place soccer team acting crazy

Life with Wyatt is always entertaining.  He is hilarious and fun and busy.  I believe this picture may foreshadow a scene from our future.  He was super excited to send it to daddy and show him is super cool tattoos.


Holden started soccer this week.  He is doing the same program Brandt did last year.  It was great and we loved how much Brandt learned.  Holden really seems to enjoy it, too.  It will be fun to watch him play this year.  Wyatt will be starting soccer next week, and then Ainsley will be starting dance and gymnastics.  The three boys will be back in school next Wednesday.  All three of them gone all day.  Ainsley and I will be lonely.  Lazy, hazy summer days are just a memory.  We are gearing up for a typical Kelly schedule.  Can't wait to add our newest Kelly to the mix.  

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Summer Blues

So is it really already August 14th?  I'm sorry, where did my summer go?  We go back to school on the 29th of August.  That date has snuck up on me and I am so disappointed our summer is going to end that soon.  I have loved having my sweet kiddos home.  They are really fun to hang out with, as long as I am not making them practice piano, then they are kind of sour.  But they are still going to practice, and I don't care how annoyed they are with me.  I have never met an adult that has said, "Man, I wish my parents hadn't made me learn to play the piano", but I have met a lot that wished their parents had encouraged them to continue.  The big boys are working on duets together right now. They struggle a bit working together, but I think it is encouraging them to work together as a team.
So, since I last posted, we have been busy.  Weird, huh?  I just returned from Dallas, where I was attending MOPS convention.  For those of you that don't know, MOPS is Mothers of Preschoolers.  I have been involved with the organization for about 7 years, and this year I am working with a really good friend to coordinate our group.  Convention was fantastic, and I learned a lot to bring back to our group.

This was the sunrise from Dallas/Fort Worth Airport when I was coming home Sunday morning.  It was beautiful.


Just a little advertising.  I was given a free box of these if I would post the picture on Facebook.  Well, I thought I would post it here.  So there you go.


We saw Matthew West in concert.  He was awesome.  I can hardly remember all the great speakers and musicians we heard this year. 

Mike took the kiddos to Grandpa Kelly's for the weekend.  They had a great time there.  They always love time at Grandpa's.  I got home at 12:30 Sunday, then Mike headed out for Boise at 6:00.  I think we will see each other tomorrow.  My good husband, who cares for my sweet kids and then works so hard providing for us.  I love him.  I have been joined with him for 16 years now.  The time has gone quickly, but I have enjoyed it so much.  He is my best friend, and I thank God he is my husband.  While I was in Dallas on our anniversary, he was in Ellensburg taking sentimental pictures around town and sending them to me.  It was very sweet.

We are getting down to the last few steps of the adoption process.  We are waiting for our Article 5 to be picked up in China, then we will be waiting for Travel approval.  Mike and I hope to be traveling mid September.  We are so excited to bring home our baby.  We are disappointed with the lack of information we have received about her, but we will forget all of that when we finally have her in our arms.  We just pray the process moves quickly from here on.  We pray we get an extremely quick travel approval and are able to travel right away.  Be ready Grandma, your time for caring for the kiddos here, is quickly approaching.

Today, Nicci and I ran up to Trader Joes for a quick shopping trip.  Ainsley was so sticking adorable, I had to snap a picture.  She claims that she is a mom because she has a purse and some sunglasses.  I think she is so cute, I can hardly stand it.  She isn't wearing her sunglasses, but they looked super cute too.  Just had to share.

Well, good night all.  I feel a spurt of organization coming on.  I may stay up awhile and finally get my desk organized.  I think I could be nesting.

Monday, August 6, 2012

Getting close

So I sit here looking at the adoption paperwork in my binder.  Ugh.  We are waiting for a letter for the National Visa Center to tell us that our I-800 has been cabled to China.  After that paperwork will be walked into some office in China, and we will wait 2 weeks for that to be picked up.  After that, we will be anxiously waiting for our travel approval.  That wait is again variable.  We are so close, I can almost taste it.  I have started gathering provisions for our trip.  I have a whole plastic container full of medical supplies to meet the possible needs of our daughter.  It includes syringes, and after wondering about them for awhile, I read that if you need medical care for your child in China, you may not be offered sterile syringes, so we will bring our own.  I also have a box of bottles to use to feed our baby specially made for a child with cleft lip and palate.  I have bibs thanks to my sweet sister, and random sized clothing, because we have not had an update on our child since last spring, and it was dated last December.  I guess we will be prepared for whatever we are given.  I know we will be staying in Guangzhou the entire trip since our daughter is in that province.  It eases some of my concerns, because now we won't have to travel around inside China.  I will be flying only on an airline I am very familiar with and staying in the same hotel the whole time.  It is supposed to be a very comfortable hotel.  Now my big unknown is how things will go with Grace.  Praying for a good bonding experience and that she will be healthy when we finally take her in our arms.
We have been crazy busy this August.  We started this weekend with a soccer tournament, a wedding and a trip to the big city (Coulee City) for a family reunion.  We completely exhausted our kids and are paying for it today.  This week, I head to Dallas for MOPS convention.  I am so excited.  It will be a fun time with moms from all over the world.  Sunday, I will be back and will watch the three boys race in a triathlon put on by the YMCA.  Go Kelly boys.  Next week, my two big boys head to church camp.  I will be so sad to see them go, but they will have a great time.  I am also so excited they will be there together.  Brothers are good to have.  Brandt comes back to another soccer tournament, then it is our last full week before the kids head to school.  Where did summer go?  I am not looking forward to letting my boys leave me all day every day.  Ainsley and I will be staying home and working on home school.  She is going to be my prize student :)  I am excited to get the one on one time with her.  I think she will enjoy school work. OK, no pictures this time.  Love you all.

Sunday, July 29, 2012

A little of this and a little of that

Oh so much to comment on today.  We are having a quiet afternoon after getting the kids up at 4:30 to cheer me on at my triathlon.  They were all so sweet and I was thankful to see them on so many different parts of the course.  I also ran into a couple of great friends at the race and had so much fun.  I love the shorter distance triathlons, because at just about the time boredom starts to kick in, it is time for the next portion of the race.  I think I will sign up to do it again next year.  Thanks to my mom, sister and niece who also got up at zero dark thirty to come and cheer me on.  What a great support system I have.










The kids have been enjoying more time in the back yard.  Mike lowered the temp. on our hot tub, so the kids treat it like a swimming pool.

We spent a night in Leavenworth visiting with Mike's extended family.  It was a very nice gathering.  We have never stayed in a KOA, so we were pleasantly surprised with the cute little cabin we got and the fun swimming pool the kids played in.  We enjoyed seeing the family and spending time visiting.  We also got to visit the Soup Cellar in town and found our favorite ice cream place.  The kids checked out the Hat shop as well.








Soup  Cellar
Hat Shop


On the adoption front, we received our I-800 back from the Department of Homeland Security.  We are one step closer to going over and getting our baby girl.  We mailed our Visa application from the big city of Moses Lake on our way to Leavenworth.  It should arrive in San Fran on Monday, and we should be issued visas to travel to China.  We are waiting for a few more steps in China, then they will issue our Travel Approval and tell us to come and get our little girl.  The time seems to be moving right along now that we have more steps taking place.  We are hoping to travel in mid September.

The kids and I spent the week at VBS at our church.  It was exciting to help out and be apart of it.  I was in charge of a group of kids that did not include any of my own.  It was fun to watch my kids from a distance, but I was still a part of what they were doing.  Our church put on a wonderful VBS, and I had a great time.  The kids all enjoyed it, too.

I found the color I wanted to paint the girls' room.  It is a light lavender color.  We will be putting bunk beds in their room and a new dresser for the large amount of clothes two little girls can acquire.  Girl's clothes are so much fun.  It is a weakness for me.  Thankfully I now have someone to pass all Ainsley's cute things on to.

I have only painted 2 walls so far because the only chance I have to paint is after the kids are in bed.  The green is the color I am covering now.  

Brandt is off on an adventure with his best friend this week.  He is camping in Oregon until Thursday.  My week may drag by.  Thankfully, Mike invited us along on one of his work trips, so we will be hanging in the hotel and swimming while he is bringing home the bacon.  I am so fortunate to have such a wonderful husband, and for those of you that don't remember, we officially became husband and wife almost 16 years ago.  Our anniversary is coming up in a couple of weeks.  I am so blessed and loved by my dear husband.  
My number one supporter

The Kelly Krew all decked out in matching t-shirts

An amazing sunset at our house

The kids cherry picking at Green bluff


And Wyatt looked goofy in all of them


Hat Shop


Hat Shop

Hat shop

Mike, Evie and Tim with Auntie Gaye


Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Summer

Another trip to the mailbox reveals we are still waiting for the US government to return the most recent of our paperwork.  We have been enjoying our summer, now that we are finally out of the cool June weather and the long wait for our LOA.  I am going to start redecorating the girls room to accommodate 2 instead of just one little girl.  Ainsley is excited and wants a purple bedroom.  I am going to see what I can do.  I will hopefully find the paint I want today, and at least get the project started.  My daughter has started doing the strangest thing.  She likes to empty her drawers onto her bedroom floor.  She is aware of the fact that its not OK, but she has done it twice.  Weird.  The first time, I put it away, and took the opportunity to sort through her clothes.  She hit another growth spurt, so I had some clothes to move.  The second time, I had her return her own clothes to their drawers.  Maybe she will think twice about it now.

Here is my princess girl in the cutest white dress, running the trike through a mud puddle.  So funny.


This picture just demonstrates how long her legs are getting.  She is getting so big.  She still enjoys a break at the coffee shop with daddy.

We have been enjoying time together this month.  Mike has been a bit slow as far as travel goes, so we have been having lots of opportunity to enjoy life.  The kids have been playing in the kiddy pool and kid car wash in the back yard (Dad made if for them last year out of PVC pipe.)  They have been riding their bikes a lot.  And their knees show it.  We are heading to Leavenworth this weekend, and planning a couple of weekends of soccer.  I am heading to MOPS convention, and then the kids head back to school.  This summer has been great, but I can't help but feel we are missing someone.  I can't wait until we have our family home and together.  We miss our daughter and sister.

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

My Ironman succeeds again

Sunday, Mike finished the Lake Stevens 70.3.  He did so well and finished strong.  B ran for a bit with him at the end, just to keep his spirits up.  He seemed to appreciate it.  It was a fun weekend.  We were all a little tired, though, after getting up at 4:30 to accompany Mike to the start.  The ride home was relatively quiet.
Lake Steven's starting line.  7:00 AM

Mike finished his swim in 39 minutes.  That is so good.

Transition to run after a great job on his bike


One of many running loops.  Mike is the second one in the picture, not the first.  It is kind of a dark picture.  

We finished up all of the paperwork we need to for this step of the adoption process.  I called to find out all the details for filling out Mike and my visa forms.  I wanted to be sure I answered all the questions correctly.  It was sort of confusing, but the person I spoke with was very helpful, and now they are done and waiting for our provisional approval for our I-800.  Can't believe we could be traveling in September.  So cool.  We stopped by IKEA to pick up a dresser for the girls' room.  I think I will start getting their room all set up, but we don't know if G will be joining A right away or if she will be rooming with us.  We are open to doing what we need to do to get our baby girl adjusted to life with a family.  
After a swim at the Y, Mike and I took the kids on a "coffee" date.  We don't get the chance to hang as a family like that very often, but we enjoy it when we can.  
Have a great day.

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Following my ironman


After months of preparation, we are one day from Mike's 70.3 Ironman.  Tomorrow morning at 6:30, he will begin his 1.2 mile swim, 56 mile bike and 13.1 mile run.  While he's doing all of that, Nicci, Addisyn, my kids and I will be waiting to cheer him on any chance we get.
Yesterday we returned more paperwork to our agency.  We are waiting to hear back from the US government approving our adoption in the form of I-800 approval.  After that, some steps take place in China.  We are hoping to travel by mid September.  As I was sorting through the new stack of papers, I was very anxious and nervous, concerned I would fill something out incorrectly.  Mike noticed and called me crazy.  He knows how thorough I am and I have already done the majority of the tough paperwork.   This is just a few simple forms that need to be filled out and returned and shouldn't cause me that kind of stress.  But it does.  I feel similar to when I was pregnant with my babies.  I wanted to give them my best, even when they were in me.  I ate well and exercised.  I went to my regular check ups.  I avoided any sort of risky behavior.  While God has the ultimate control over my pregnancies, I still felt responsible.  I think God would have delivered my babies to me healthy and happy if I hadn't been so concerned, but I still felt I had to do my part.  I guess that is where I am now with Grace.  I want to do everything I possible can, so she can come to us as soon as possible.  Again, God is in control, but I feel I have the responsibility to do my best while I am waiting.  Thankfully, we were able to get to the notary first thing yesterday and get everything signed and put back in the mail.  It will be delivered to our agencies travel department on Monday.  I have one more set of paperwork to complete, but I am feeling a bit calmer and hopefully things will go according to schedule, though my prayer has been things would move faster than would be expected and God would be glorified because of it.  God will be glorified regardless.
So here we are in Western Washington enjoying cooler temperatures and fog.  Such a departure from the hot, hot, hot we have been experiencing.  We plan an exciting day of Starbucks, packet pick up, IKEA, and bike drop off.  We are staying with some really sweet friends, so dinner with them and an early bed time.  Tomorrow morning we take off for the course at about 5:00.  The kids should be thrilled.

Just a picture of some strawberries from our garden that the kids and I collected Thursday. They contributed to a fabulous dessert of strawberry shortcake.